Thankful for Facebook in my Military Spouse Life

I was thinking this morning how thankful I am for Facebook.  I know some people have problems with Facebook but I never really have had any and it has really been a good thing the last few years.  Especially since we are a Military family and don’t live anywhere near our family and long time friends.  We also move often or our friends move often.  Facebook has helped me keep in touch.

Now if someone is a close friend and moves away it is much more likely that we will talk on the phone or write emails to each other.  I have one friend whom I text with all day long.  If I suddenly didn’t have access to Facebook anymore I would still be in touch with those people.

But what about everyone else?

What about the other Moms I met at my son’s first preschool or friends I went through deployments with or people I have met at Bible study or a playgroup?  People that touched me in one way or another.  I simply would not be able to keep in touch with all of these people.  Facebook makes it possible.  I can see pictures of their new baby.  I can hear stories of their children growing up.  We can discuss the latest movie or book or play a round of Words with Friends.

I think for me it makes the whole saying goodbye part of Military life a little easier.

Have you been able to keep in touch with people after you or they move away?  What is the easiest way for you to do that?

Feeling good about the future

18 Months oldI am feeling pretty good about the future today. I am not sure what it is. I was reading Shannon’s blog and she made some good points about things not always working out the way we want them to work out. She is so right! I might have ideas about how I want things to work out and I might have control over some of those things but I don’t have control over everything and I need to let that go. There really is no point to worrying about things you have no control over, especially when even if they aren’t working out the way you think they should, they still tend to work out.

This morning I am feeling pretty good about the future. Whatever happens as far as the Army goes is out of my control. I can’t do anything about it so I really just need to roll with it. In the end it will all work out. I just have to believe that.

 

7 Years Old

Once I take away that current stress I feel better. I feel lighter. I feel happier. I just hope I can remember to not worry about it anymore. Whatever is going to be, will be.

Summer vacation starts tomorrow and as of right now I am pretty excited about it. My oldest will be going into 1st grade and my #2 will be going into Kindergarten. I can’t believe they will both be school age kids. But this summer I hope to spend a lot of quality time with them since in the fall things will be different. I have to balance this with getting some work done which is going to be a challenge. Unlike last summer, my husband will be home other than a few weeks of field time. This will be nice. We will have the weekends to spend as a family in the summer heat.

5 Years Old

Our California trip is officially booked and I am very excited about it. I find myself thinking about it when I should be thinking about the rest of May and June here in Tennessee. It has been too long since we have taken a real family vacation. It has been even longer since we have gone to California together. It is going to be great!

I hope you are all having a great Monday too!

 

Down by the fishing stream

Fort Campbell has a neat little fishing stream down by Gate 10.  We have been there a handful of times and always have a lot of fun.  These are from when we went in April and had a bbq with our friends.

Ft. Campbell

Ft. Campbell

Ft. Campbell

Ft. Campbell

Ft. Campbell

Ft. Campbell

Dear Directv

Dear Directv,

 

I know you are upset that we cancelled our service with you. We would have done it sooner but you have contracts and for some silly reason I signed a two-year one back in 2010. It isn’t that I don’t like tv, I like it a lot actually. But quite honestly, we don’t want to pay for it anymore. We love Netflix. Sorry, Netflix has our heart and has for years. We get the DVDs and have instant. Netflix has almost any DVD we could want and we can usually find something good to watch on the instant version. We pay a lot less for this than we do for you. We know that you offer new tv shows, sports and the news. We know this. I usually get my news online. Very rarely will I sit and watch it on tv. It has been two months since we cancelled with you. We are very happy with this new arrangement. If I want to watch a new show I have to do it online but lets face it, I am more likely to be on my computer anyway. Your DVR service is nice but quite honestly I felt like I had to watch my shows ASAP or something bad would happen. Not sure why I always felt like that but I did. So now we are a Netflix only family and it works for us. I still get to watch my TV shows even though they are older. They are new to me though and that is what matters.

So after reading all this, can you please stop sending me, “We miss you” emails. You don’t miss me. You miss our money. And please, don’t call us about it either. If we decide we want your service again, we will contact you. Although we might just call Dish or Comcast. Who knows? And I can tell you it won’t be anytime soon.

Thanks so much!

Your previous customer!

 

My baby is 18 months old

18 months!  I can’t get over it!  It seems like he was born just a few months ago.  18 months is huge though!  It is a big milestone.  It is that point when a child becomes a total toddler.  When you start to see the little boy emerge and see the baby slowly start to get left behind.  I think because he is my last baby it feels like he shouldn’t be 18 months.  It feels like when the other two were 18 months they were older.

He is doing so much!  Trying to keep up with his brothers, saying new words and learning new things.  I really do love this age!  It is a lot of fun to watch them grow and start using new words and see how they are trying to figure out their world.

He has been my little buddy since his brothers were in school but now that it is summer, well it will be summer break in 4 days, things will be a little different around here.  Then in the fall he will really be my little buddy as both brothers will be in school full-time.  What will be great about this is that I will be able to find things for him to do and he won’t just be the little baby brother just along for the ride.

18 Months Old

18 Months Old

18 Months Old

18 Months Old

Class of 2025

preschool graduationToday my little boy graduated from preschool. He is going to start Kindergarten in the fall and I am feeling a little emotional about it. It isn’t that I can’t let him go, it is that I think about how quickly the last 5.5 years went and how he is going to be starting official school soon.

Years go by so quickly, I know it will be 2025 before we know it. 2025 is when he is supposed to graduate from high school! His brother will graduate a year before him. What will life be like for us then? I think about it sometimes. If Ben decides to go career he will be close to hitting his 20 year mark. He might only have a year left! I would hope that I would be making a full-time income from home by that time. That is my dream. I am not sure where we will live. I am not sure if he will graduate from the high school we live by right now. It could be in a different state or even country.

I hope that when it is 2025 I can look back on his childhood and know he had a good one. That he will learn what he needs to and he will be able to have a pretty normal life. Well as normal of a life as a Military child can have. I worry about him and the middle school years. They are hard for any kid but to add Asperger’s on top of it, make me terrified that he will hate those years. I pray that he can make friends at every place we may live. Friends that understand him and want to be around him. I am thankful he has two brothers that will always be his friends.

We were worried about him and his preschool graduation. Even talked about skipping it. But he went and he did wonderful. I was so proud of him. He therapy has really been helping him. The other night he and his brother got into a little bit of a fight. After cooling down a bit he went up to his brother and told him sorry without being asked to do so. I thought that was huge!

I am excited about Kindergarten! I am nervous about Kindergarten! I am worried about kindergarten! I know that when we work with him on his behaviors, he learns how he should be acting in certain situations. I know it is hard for him. He has bad days and it is hard to watch. I want so badly to fully understand him but I don’t think I ever really will. He is already starting to read a little bit which is awesome! He knows pretty much what you need to know before you start Kindergarten. His big struggles next year will be social.  It might be a hard year, it might be really wonderful.  I guess we just have to wait and see how it goes.

 

Anyone else getting ready to send a child to kindergarten in the fall? Do you have any worries about it?

 

 

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