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Holding Onto the Memories: Losing My Grandparents Too Soon

April 3, 2025 by Julie Leave a Comment

Losing My Grandparents Too Soon

There is a graphic going around Facebook that says something about being able to go back to your grandmother’s kitchen, just for a moment. So many of us have memories of our grandmother’s kitchen. I know I do.

As a young girl, I remember baking cookies with my grandma. It was a tradition; sometimes certain smells remind me of those days. The smell of coffee mixed with a slight whiff of cigarette smoke from my grandpa brings me back to her kitchen in Glendale, Arizona.

I can remember where the table was, the fridge in the corner, and the TV where they watched a lot of Wheel of Fortune. The carpet was the same type of carpet you might find in an elementary school, and my grandma had one of those vacuum sweepers to clean up messes.

I walk through their home in my memories often and think about all the time I was able to spend there. The long drive from California, the hot pavement in the heat, and the cactus out front that we called our cactus family.

As I remember my grandparents, I also think about the fact that I lost them too soon. I never met my paternal grandfather, he passed a few years before I was born. My paternal grandmother passed away when I was just 4 years old so I have very little memories of her.

My maternal grandfather passed away when I was about 14 and at the same time, my maternal grandmother was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s Disease. And while she lived until I was 23 years old, I felt like I lost her much earlier than that.

Holding Onto the Memories: Losing My Grandparents Too Soon

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Filed Under: Military Families Tagged With: family, grandparents, memories

11 Reasons to Plan a Trip Home This Summer

July 5, 2018 by Julie

11 Reasons to Plan a Trip Home This Summer

As a military spouse, you probably have moved around a lot. You could be miles and miles from your home and family. You could be overseas, or across the country. You could be a two-hour drive away or a two-day drive. However far away you might be, it could be time for a visit home this summer.

11 Reasons to Plan a Trip Home This Summer

Whether your spouse is deployed and you take the kids, or they are home and luckily have some block leave time, planning a trip home for the summer can be a good idea.

Here are a few reasons why:

1. It’s been a while

If you haven’t visited home in a while, maybe now is the time to do so. You probably have family and friends that would love to see you.

2. You have school-age kids and summer works best

When your kids start school, you have less time to go on vacation with them. While you can pull them out of school sometimes, generally it is better to go on long vacation when they are out of school. That is why summer is a good idea. No one is missing any school.

3. Summers are really too long anyway

Let’s face it; summer can feel a bit long. By about the six-week mark, you might be over summer break. That is the best time to plan a trip.

11 Reasons to Plan a Trip Home This Summer

4. Grandparent time

Grandparents love to spend time with their grandchildren, but sometimes it can be harder for them to travel and see you. If you can’t get away, you could always send your older children to spend time with their grandparents during the summer. I have such special memories with my own grandparents from when we went to visit them as a child.

5. Summer at home is better weather than summer at your duty station

This isn’t true for everyone, but the summer weather in my hometown is a lot better than where we currently live. It isn’t as humid, and the bugs are not as loud. Visiting home during the summer is a nice break from the hot and humidity of the south.

6. You really miss your favorite hamburger place

It might not be a hamburger place; maybe it is a favorite pizza place or Mexican restaurant. There is just something about having a taste of home when you visit. In-and-Out, here we come.

7. More likely to see friends who have also moved out of town

You might not be the only one who moved away from home; your friends might have too. And from experience, summer is usually when they visit their families. Maybe, just maybe you will be in town at the same time and can make plans to see each other.

11 Reasons to Plan a Trip Home This Summer

8. The winters are long at your duty station, and you need a pick me up

If it snows a lot in the winter where you are stationed, and you know that once school starts in the fall, the first snowflakes won’t be far behind, a summer trip home can be the pick me up you need before the weather changes. Go home, make memories, and take them back with you for the long winter.

9. Homecooked meals

Sometimes you want a nice homecooked meal, without having to make it yourself.

10. So you can see your best friend

It could be that your best friend still lives where you grew up. And you want to see them. You want your kids to play together, and you want to go out for dinner and to catch up.

11. You hate the snow and would rather not visit when it is on the ground

Maybe you are from a colder climate, and you don’t want to visit at all during the winter. Just the thought of 20 degrees sends you under the blankets. Summer is a good time to get your vacationing time at home in.

Whatever your reasons, if you are going home this summer, have a good time. We are looking forward to our own vacation this summer too. 

 

Filed Under: Travel Tagged With: family, Military Family, traveling

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About Soldier’s Wife, Crazy Life

 

Welcome to Soldier’s Wife, Crazy Life! I am so glad you are here.

My name is Julie and I first became a military spouse in 2005 when my husband of 3 years re-joined the Army. Then, in 2014, he joined the National Guard. In January of 2024, he retired from the National Guard after 21 years of service.

During our time in the military, we got to spend 4 years in Germany as well as Tennessee where we now call home.

We have three boys and have been through four deployments together.

I hope that you can find support for your own deployments, PCS moves, or anything else military life brings you through my articles and social media posts.

 

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