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Should You Buy A House If You Are In The Military?

August 31, 2015 by Julie 5 Comments

Should You Buy A House If You Are In The Military?

Should You Buy A House If You Are In The Military?

Buying a house is a big commitment and something you really have to think about before you decide to go ahead and do it. Home ownership is something that a lot of people hope and dream for. Even those of us that move around more often then others.

When you are a Military family, the urge to put down some type of roots is strong.

Before moving to any new duty station, any Military family has to figure out where they are going to live. For some that means on post. That is the only place they want to live and that is a good choice. There are a lot of benefits to living on post. But for those that don’t want to live there, they must decide between renting or buying a home where they are stationed.

We moved to Ft. Campbell in 2010 and started with a rental. We hated it. We knew we were going to have to move. We thought about moving on post but didn’t really want to. We looked at our options. We could buy a home in Clarksville or we could rent. We knew we would be here at least another three years.

We looked at rent and at mortgages. We knew buying could be an investment for us. We knew that if we bought we would no longer have a landlord to call if we had issues, we would have to take care of that ourselves. In the end we decided on buying because it made the most sense at the time. Renting would have cost over $100 more a month in rent then if we bought. If we rented, we would have less control over the house that we lived in.

As of today we will have been in our house for 4 years. I love that we have been here that long. We used my husband’s VA loan to buy it. Overall it was a pretty easy process too. We love our home and neighborhood and glad we made that decision. However, we are looking at a move to California in the next few years. This means we will have to decide on selling or renting out our home. It is a big decision and as of right now we are not sure what we are going to do.

So how do you decide if you should by a house if you are in the Military?

You really need to talk it over, figure out what your plans are and know that things could change. You could buy a house thinking you will be in the area for years and then have to move before you have lived in it a year. You never know and that is the risk you have to take.

You have to decide if it is worth it. If you could handle selling or renting out a home. You have to figure out if it would just be easier to rent from someone else until your spouse gets out of the Military.

There are benefits to owning a home, especially around a Military Installation that will be around for a long time. You can look at it as an investment, you can make the home the way you want it and you always have a place to come back to once you get out of the Military. You can rent it out when you leave and know it will help you in the future.

What about you? Have you decided to buy a house at your current duty station? Are you waiting until Military life is over?

Filed Under: Military Life Tagged With: military living

Advice For Your First Deployment

July 7, 2011 by Julie 3 Comments

Advice For Your First Deployment

Advice For Your First Deployment

My next guest post is by a friend of mine, Jess.  She was the very first Army wife I met when we started this Army adventure. She was also my FRG leader.  I asked her to write about advice she would give someone who was getting ready for their first deployment.  Our first deployment was in 2006 and Jess was there to tell me a little bit of what to expect so I just knew this would be a great post!  Thank you Jess 🙂

Stressed? Emotional? Perhaps even a bit stand-offish? Sounds like you’ve got a deployment coming up. The bad news is your Soldier is leaving. The good news is you aren’t alone!

There is no specific way to handle a deployment, especially your first deployment. Some people take it all in stride and seem to brush off the hardship. Others seem to physically break down the second their Soldier marches away. Still others seem to change entirely and don’t seem to return to normal until their Soldier is back in their arms again. No matter which category you find yourself falling into, remember this: You are STRONG. You are CAPABLE. You CAN do this!

Just as parenting a child has no actual guidebook, deployments don’t come with magic spouse field manuals. However, let’s not speak that phrase too loudly. I’ve seen some pretty crazy things put into FM’s before. The greatest way to make it through the hardships of a deployment are to simply listen to your heart, listen to other’s advice and pray. If you feel overwhelmed, talk to someone! Believe me, there are a lot of us out there who are willing to listen and lend a hand (or a shoulder) when necessary. Don’t be afraid to ask.

One of the greatest things you can do for yourself is to set personal goals.. You don’t have to get crazy with it; the point of a goal is to be able to accomplish it. Set mini-milestones throughout to ensure you stay focused and on-target. A big favorite that I’ve seen is weight-loss/healthier lifestyles. Say you set a goal to lose 25 pounds throughout the year. Remember to start off in small increments, and celebrate each 5 pounds you are able to lose. This is a great way to have something realistic to look forward to in a relatively short time! The greatest part is-IT’S ALL YOURS! It’s very easy to lose yourself in the constant stress during a deployment. Don’t forget that your Soldier still needs you just as much as you need him/her. Take care of yourself, even while supporting your deployed loved one.

If I could offer just one last bit of advice, it would be to stay busy and not forget that the world is still going round. It’s very common to feel bad about going out and having fun while your loved one is away, but remember, you need your personal time as well. It’s ok to go catch a movie with the girls, or secure a babysitter for a few hours of pampering at the salon every now and again. You are HouseHold 6. You keep the home fires burning. You can’t take care of anyone else unless you take care of yourself first. Make yourself a priority, especially while your loved one is away. Don’t lose yourself to the chaos and stress, and always reach out if you need help. You follow a long legacy of the Silent Ranks. You can do this!

 

 

Filed Under: Deployment, Military Life Tagged With: army wife, Deployment, getting through a deployment, military, military living, military wife, military wives

Wounded Warrior Soldier Ride in Nashville, TN

September 28, 2010 by Julie 9 Comments

Wounded Warrior Soldier Ride in Nashville, TN

 

On Friday, I had a guest post about the Wounded Warrior Soldier Ride.  It just so happens that we got invited to the Soldier Ride in Nashville to cheer my friend’s husband (and everyone else riding) on.  We left early Saturday morning and got there just in time for the opening ceremony.

It was such a great thing to see!  So many people riding their bikes.  They also have a walk and we are thinking of really trying to do it next year.

 

Wounded Warrior Soldier Ride in Nashville, TN

Wounded Warrior Soldier Ride in Nashville, TN

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I had not heard of this before.  It sounded like my friend’s husband had a wonderful time getting together with others and bonding over a 4 day time period.  This race was just apart of what they did together over the weekend.  It sounds to me like an awesome program.

 

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Filed Under: Military Life Tagged With: military, military living

Wounded Warrior Project’s Soldier Ride Guest Post

September 24, 2010 by Julie 5 Comments

Renee from 1-800-PACK-RAT has provided a guest post for my blog on the Wounded Warrior’s Soldier Ride.  Renee was not only raised in the military, but also served herself.  Thank you Renee for this post 🙂

I hope to be able to attend the Soldier Ride in Nashville tomorrow.  One of my friend’s husband’s will be riding in it.  I will blog about that next week.

Wounded Warrior Project’s Soldier Ride

Most anyone would find a 3 to 5 day cycling event challenging.  Now imagine if you were making that ride in spite of a physical injury.  But that is just what happens across the nation, as injured service members participate in the Wounded Warrior Project’s Soldier Ride.  The Soldier Ride provides a supportive environment in which injured service members of all abilities can train for and participate in an adaptive cycling event.  The Soldier Ride not only gives wounded warriors a chance to regain confidence and physical and mental strength, but it draws public support and awareness for the brave men and women who have been injured serving our country and the challenges they now face in their daily lives.

The Wounded Warrior Project is a national non-profit and non-partisan group whose mission is to honor and empower our injured service members.  As many of those service members return stateside and try to readjust to life back home, the Wounded Warrior Project provides support to help them heal and become stronger both physically and mentally.  The organization’s purpose is to raise public awareness and support for the needs of injured service men and women, provide a foundation to help those men and women support each other and provide unique services and programs for those individuals.  The Soldier Ride is one of those unique initiatives and an opportunity for wounded warriors, volunteers and supporters from all walks of life to come together to honor the men and women who selflessly serve our country.

Since 2007, 1-800-PACK-RAT has been proud to be a continued supporter of the Wounded Warrior Project and the Soldier Rides.  PACK-RAT provides storage support and transportation during those Soldier Rides.  “We have been honored to help military personnel store and move their belongings between deployments and after their tours have ended.  It is fitting that we would help our treasured veterans move their equipment between the Wounded Warriors’ Soldier Rides,” explains CEO, Bob Poirier.

To see a listing of national tour rides, donate or learn more about the Solider Ride, visit http://sr.woundedwarriorproject.org.  To get involved and learn more about the Wounded Warrior Project visit www.woundedwarriorproject.org, call Natalia Rankine-Galloway at (212) 629-8881, or email nrg@woundedwarriorproject.org.

1-800-PACK-RAT is a moving and portable storage company that has proudly helped families with their military moving and storage needs between deployments, when they PCS and when they retire and separate from the military.

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Filed Under: Guest Post, Military Life Tagged With: military living

And at the end of it all…Homecoming!

July 22, 2010 by Julie 2 Comments

One thing I try to keep in mind is that at the end of the deployment, we get to experience something wonderful…homecoming.

Military Homecoming

After all the long nights, computer conversations, emotional breakdowns, tears and lonely nights…it is finally over.  You wake up with a smile on your face thinking, “Is today really the day?” And it is. You get ready as soon as you can only to have hours to sit and wait for the final phone call. And finally, you get it.

Someone on the other end of the line tells you those magical words, “Your soldier will be arriving at the gym at 2pm.” And now you have a time. You can countdown in hours! Before you know it you are at the gym with your kids with all the other wives and children waiting for everything to start. It seems like forever as you sit there with a smile on your face. You can’t help it. This is such a happy day!

Finally someone important tells you it is almost time and to take your seat. The gym gets quiet, you see smoke and hear music and see the first of the boots march in. “Where is he? My husband is tall I should be able to spot him, ” you ask as you search the crowd of uniforms for your husband. And there he is, so serious. You know how excited HE is but he can’t smile about it, at least not yet. All the men are finally in the gym and you can’t stand it.

Someone important says a few words, maybe a prayer and then you hear those words…the words you have waited a full year to hear, “soldiers you are released”

The room goes nuts. The men in uniform start to smile and laugh and the women run to them. Children shouting “daddy daddy,” and you find him, and you hug him and you kiss him. Finally, the deployment is over. He is done with the deployment. The deployment stress is gone and he is in your arms again. All around you are daddy’s meeting babies, wives kissing husbands, and the room is filled with joy.

Other than my wedding day and the births of my children, there is nothing more wonderful than homecoming day.  So after he does deploy I will remember that after some time, that day will come again. And we will have another homecoming day.

Filed Under: Deployment, Military Life Tagged With: army wife, Deployment, Homecoming, military living, military wife

A Military Wife

May 20, 2010 by Julie 1 Comment

A Military Wife

 

 

A Military Wife

 

Lots of moving…
Moving…
Moving……

Moving far from home…
Moving two cars, three kids and one dog…all riding with HER of course….
Moving sofas to basements because they won’t go in THIS house;
Moving curtains that won’t fit;
Moving jobs and certifications and professional development hours.
Moving away from friends;
Moving toward new friends;
Moving her most important luggage: her trunk full of memories.
Often waiting…
Waiting…
Waiting…
Waiting for housing.
Waiting for orders.
Waiting for deployments.
Waiting for phone calls.
Waiting for reunions.
Waiting for the new curtains to arrive.
Waiting for him to come home,
For dinner…AGAIN!
They call her ‘Military Dependent’, but she knows better:
She is fiercely In-Dependent.
She can balance a check book;
Handle the yard work;
Fix a noisy toilet;
Bury the family pet…
She is intimately familiar with drywall anchors and toggle bolts.
She can file the taxes;
Sell a house;
Buy a car;
Or set up a move…
…..all with ONE Power of Attorney.
She welcomes neighbors that don’t welcome her.
She reinvents her career with every PCS;
Locates a house in the desert, The Arctic, Or the deep south.
And learns to call them all ‘home’.
She MAKES them all home.
Military Wives are somewhat hasty…
They leap into:
Decorating,
Leadership,
Volunteering,
Career alternatives,
Churches,
And friendships.
They don’t have 15 years to get to know people.
Their roots are short but flexible.
They plant annuals for themselves and perennials for those who come after them.
Military Wives quickly learn to value each other:
They connect over coffee,
Rely on the spouse network,
Accept offers of friendship and favors.
Record addresses in pencil…
Military Wives have a common bond:

The Military Wife has a husband unlike other husbands; his commitment is unique.
He doesn’t have a ‘JOB’
He has a ‘MISSION’ that he can’t just decide to quit…
He’s on-call for his country 24/7.
But for her, he’s the most unreliable guy in town!
His language is foreign
TDY
PCS
OPR
SOS
ACC
BDU
ACU
BAR
CIB
TAD
ABU
And so, a Military Wife is a translator for her family and his.
She is the long- distance link to keep them informed;
the glue that holds them together.
A Military Wife has her moments:
She wants to wring his neck;
Dye his uniform pink;
Refuse to move to Siberia;
But she pulls herself together.
Give her a few days,
A travel brochure,
A long hot bath,
A pledge to the flag,
A wedding picture,
And she goes.
She packs.
She moves.
She follows.
Why?
What for?
How come?
You may think it is because she has lost her mind.
But actually it is because she has lost her heart.
It was stolen from her by a man,
Who puts duty first,
Who longs to deploy,
Who salutes the flag,
And whose boots in the doorway remind her that as long as he is her Military Husband,
She will remain his military wife.
And would have it no other way.
–Author Unknown

Filed Under: Military Life Tagged With: army wife, army wife blog, Deployment, military life, military living, military spouse, military wife, military wives

Things to do in Germany with Kids : Playmobil Park

January 26, 2010 by Julie 2 Comments

Playmobil Park

I grew up playing with Playmobil and I love the stuff.  We have been collecting it the whole time we have been married.  Now both of my boys LOVE it.  It is everywhere in Germany and they even have a Theme park.  We took the boys there for my son’s 4th birthday.

There are so many fun things for the kids to do.  It’s great!  Lots of water play and climbing fun.  They also have this huge inside area where they have almost every set they ever made for the kids to play with.  It is all set up by theme too.  So pirates in one section, Egypt in another.  They even have places for the toddlers to play with the special toddler sets.  I believe that part is open throughout the whole year but the outside stuff is closed in the wintertime.

Here is the link for all my friends living in Germany…

Playmobil Park in Germany

It is just outside of Nürnberg.

They also have one in France, Malta, Greece, Palm Beach & Orlando.  Playmobil Parks

Playmobil Park in Germany

Playmobil Park in Germany

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Filed Under: Stationed in Germany, Stationed Overseas Tagged With: army wife blog, germany, military living, military wife

Faith Deployed: Review & Giveaway

January 19, 2010 by Julie Leave a Comment

Faith Deployed Book

I love this book!  I know I have mentioned the book before but the author, Jocelyn Green recently asked me to write a review. I will also be hosting a giveaway of this book!

The book is made up of little devotionals for those going through a deployment. Right after my husband deployed last year I saw this book at our PX.  I just had to have it.  As a Christian and a military spouse, I knew this book was written for someone in my situation.

The book itself is divided into sections.  This is great so that if something specific is on your heart, you can look up devotionals under that topic.  The different sections are:

Taking Every Thought Captive: Training Our Minds to a Biblical Perspective

Guarding the Heart: Protecting Ourselves from the World’s Temptations

Ambassadors for Christ: Viewing our Role as a Ministry

Taking Orders: Living the Life that has been Set Before Us

Total Surrender: Giving Up our Attempts to be in Control

The Price of Duty: Overcoming the Trials Inherent in Serving

Active Duty Faith: Leaning on a Faith that Sustains

Hope of Victory: Recognizing God’s Goodness

The setup of the book makes it very easy to read.   You could sit and read several chapters in a row or just take in one at a time.  During my husband’s deployment I did try to read at least one devotional a day.  Some days I would end up reading two or three of them.

These 14 writers along with Jocelyn Green make up all the devotions in the book:

Pamela Anderson, Sarah Bell, Rebekah Benimoff, Paulette Harris, Jill Hart, Sara Horn, Denise McColl, Lori Mumford, Vanessa Peters, Lasana Ritchie. Sheryl Shearer, Ronda Sturgill, Marshele Carter Waddell and Eathel Weimer.

What is great about all these authors is that they come from all branches of the military, both Active duty and the Reserves.  This helps bring perspective and a sense of realness to the devotions.  I enjoyed the different tones and experiences that the different writers brought to the book.  There were several devotions that I read and thought, “Wow that totally hit home!”  Then others I could not relate to as well. The book was also able to address some of the fears I have had or do have about having a husband in the military.

Each little devotion starts with a Bible verse.  I love that after each devotion there is a prayer and a question for the reader.

I would say this book is a necessity for anyone who is going through a deployment or military life in general.

 Faith Deployed: Daily Encouragement for Military Wives ~ Amazon Link

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Faith Deployed Website

Now for the giveaway!  Jocelyn Green has offered to giveaway 1 copy of this book to one of my readers 🙂  The winner will receive the book directly from her.

I will be using Random.org to pick the winner.

All you have to do is leave a comment between now and Friday Jan 22nd at 11:55pm Eastern time.

Good luck!!!

 

 

 

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Filed Under: Giveaways & Reviews Tagged With: Book Review, giveaway, military living, military wife, military wife blog, military wives

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About Soldier’s Wife, Crazy Life

 

Welcome to Soldier’s Wife, Crazy Life! I am so glad you are here.

My name is Julie and I first became a military spouse in 2005 when my husband of 3 years re-joined the Army. Then, in 2014, he joined the National Guard. In January of 2024, he retired from the National Guard after 21 years of service.

During our time in the military, we got to spend 4 years in Germany as well as Tennessee where we now call home.

We have three boys and have been through four deployments together.

I hope that you can find support for your own deployments, PCS moves, or anything else military life brings you through my articles and social media posts.

 

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